Can You Answer This Question Ladies Please?

Why do yall go over board when a dude show yall unconditional love, i mean like if we give yall the attention yall want why do yall fuck it up and just hound dog us thats the reason why we treat yall so sternly at times, and then get called dogs cause of the backlash we give yall from the annoyance yall give. sheesh idk somebody give me answers please..